They say two things in life are guaranteed: death and taxes.
Well I say there's one thing that's guaranteed after death: your children will fight over your stuff.
Well I say there's one thing that's guaranteed after death: your children will fight over your stuff.

I thought my family was better than this as well. Right up until after my dad passed. Mom then took everyone aside and asked "what do you want" and set aside stuff for each of the kids so this would be minimized at her passing.